Getting Unfollowed in Twitter

Getting Unfollowed in Twitter

Not everyone gets Twitter; I understand that.  Many marketers will tell you it’s better to have only a hundred or so really interactive followers than thousands who may not interact with you at all (I see their point, but I disagree.  More on that in a future post, though).  I’m sure everyone has that one friend who has 10,000 (or more) followers, and you’re probably wondering to yourself if that person is really getting anything out of it.

But I was on Twitter this morning when I saw someone post that they were going to start ‘cleansing’ their following list (get rid of followers).  I’m sure that I may be part of that cleansing, as I’ve had very little interaction with that individual.  That got me to thinking – should I take offense to their purging me from their Twitter life?

NOPE! If I don’t bring value to someone’s stream, why should I be concerned that they no longer wish to follow me?

I have unfollowed many people whose opinions and thoughts I’ve felt were not pertinent to my thought stream.  I’ve also unfollowed people who have unfollowed me in an attempt to artificially boost their numbers after I’ve followed them.  I’ve also unfollowed individuals who self promote too much.  It was nothing personal towards any of them, but I want to interact only with people who think I’m cool beans, have something to contribute, actually WANT to interact with me and who bring me the same value that I attempt to bring to them.

There are those in the “Twitterverse” (for sake of harmony, I will not mention names) who encourage people to unfollow others and for specific reasons – such as self promoting or having an RSS feed in a post (sorry, but isn’t Twitter a great traffic engine? Why wouldn’t you self promote a little, eh?).  Personally, if you’re having a hard time choosing between Chinese or Mexican food and if I have an opinion, I’ll tell you, so go ahead and post that stuff into my stream; I don’t care.  I also don’t mind a FEW self promotional messages or RSS feeds.  If you are not pertaining to my interests, I wouldn’t be following you in the first place.  Just don’t make it ALL about you (or your stomach).  Try and give me some really great nuggets of info, and we’re cool.

Many of my readers are probably disagreeing with me on this, but this is the beauty of Twitter – you can control what info you receive with the mere click of a button.

Don’t get me wrong; as far as social media platforms go, Twitter can be either “about the numbers” or “about the relationships”.  Personally, I use Twitter to establish those initial connections and to drive traffic to my website(s), so in a manner of speaking it’s both to me.  Twitter is the first level of my marketing funnel, and it is quite an effective tool.  However, you need to be prepared, people; because this once seasoned Twitter users have figured out the cheats, spammers, and scammers, this type of mass unfollowing will become more and more popular, and feelings are bound to get hurt.

Now, as far as working Twitter into your marketing strategy – if you can’t bring value to your potential followers and are using it only to inflate your ego by having a huge following, or if it consists of blindly following anyone and everyone in the hopes that they follow you back and buy from you, then – stay out of it.

So don’t be insulted when someone unfollows you; it’s not a personal attack of your worthiness as an individual – it’s just that the person who unfollowed you wants to enrich and tweak their Twitter experience.  If they bring value to you, then by all means; continue watching them.  You can always @-reply them or send them an email.

So get out there and tweet without fear of unfollows!  :)

Disclaimer: No Twitter Birds were harmed in the creation of this post.  :)


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Gravatar Icons & Avatars

Gravatar Icons & Avatars

Gravatars.  Don’t feel stupid if you don’t know what they are; I didn’t recognize gravatars for what they were or how to use a gravatar until a little more than a year ago.  Gravatars have been with us since at least 2004 (or at least, that’s what most web archives show), but they have yet to go mainstream, even though the Gravatar service was acquired by Automattic back in October 2007.

What is a Gravatar?

The idea behind the Gravatar service was to host a globally-recognized avatar that is tied to an email address on one system to be recognized on most websites, blogs, message boards, and forums.   Gravatar is as simple as using the same email address that you used to sign up with Gravatar.com on any site that supports Gravatars.

A gravatar, or globally recognized avatar, is quite simply an avatar image (usually 80 x 80 pixels) that follows you from website, to blog, to forum appearing beside your name when you comment on gravatar-enabled sites.  Avatars help identify your posts on these sites.

Great Idea?

If Gravatars are so great, why haven’t they caught on with the mainstream public?  Because so many platforms have their own versions of avatars (sites like Twitter, Facebook, phpBB, .ning) and have their own way of handling them.  Usually, it’s just “upload a profile photo”, which can vary from site to site, depending on the mood of the user at the time they sign up for these services.

Are we better off with each system managing avatars in their own ways?  Will Gravatars go to the wayside while each system manages their own avatars, or will Gravatars take over the way systems manage profiles?  Personally, I don’t think so; I think there needs to be a balance between the two.   I don’t think developers should ax their own avatar management system, but at the very least, make their systems Gravatar-compatible.  I think then, there will be more people willing to use this awesome shortcut when posting to sites.

How to Use Gravatars, and Why You Should

To create and use an avatar, simply go to the Gravatar site.  Pick one of your email addresses, assign it a photo, and whenever you go onto a site that is Gravatar-enabled (like this blog) and use the email you signed up with, your avatar will automatically show up.  It’s as simple as that!

Guess what?  It’s F-R-E-E, and you can have more than one!  I have two Gravatars; one for business use (my Dawn@DawnLambe.com addy) and one for personal (I keep that private).  If you have more than one business, why not create a Gravatar for each business, with a separate photo for each?  However, I would NOT use a trademarked or copyrighted image, like my favorite Star Trek Icon or my favorite beverage; those images are protected, and could also make you look untrustworthy if you’re ‘borrowing’ images.

Using Gravatars can help your business by helping to establish the “Know, Like, & Trust You” in your marketing efforts.  For example, let’s say you’re selling insurance.  You happen to notice an article on a national or your local news website about how many new parents are under-insured.  You read the article and the comments others have made and you post a comment yourself on the article (without making it an advertisement for you!).  On many sites, you will be asked for your email address before posting your comment.  Some sites will also ask you for your website as well.  Once you post your comment with your email address, your photo or avatar that you assigned to that email will show next to your comment, building recognition.  You may even pick up a fair bit of traffic to your site as a result.  You don’t have to comment only on topics related to your business, either; I’ve picked up traffic and clients by posting comments unrelated to my niche (when posting under my business email).

For examples of gravatars, take a look at some of my past posts and comments.  Get out there, experiment a bit, and I’ll see you on the other side.

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Aug
17

A Commercial…

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I recently attended a social networking seminar by a friend, Jody Underhill from Upsidedown Iceberg, and he offered me an opportunity to shoot a commercial as well as a testimonial for his company.  While I’m not a stranger to speaking, I’m always a tad nervous in front of the camera, but I think it turned out pretty good.


Tell me what you think, eh?  :)

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